
With less than a month to go before the emotional and uplifting film 'Precious' opens, executive producer Tyler Perry decided it was time to open up about his own personal demons. "I'm tired of holding this in," he wrote in a long and revealing letter on his Web site. "I don't know what to do with it anymore, so I've decided to give some of it away."
Perry said watching 'Precious,' which tells the story of a teen who endures molestation and physical abuse, inspired him to recall his own past. "I watched all the things that Precious, a 16-year-old girl in the film, went through. I watched her mother be unusually cruel to her, and I realized at that moment that a large part of my childhood had just played out before my eyes," he wrote.
In the letter, Perry recalled some of the most painful memories he faced as a child, and the beatings that his mother endured at the hands of his father. He also recalled an incident of what appears to be molestation at age 10 by the mother of a childhood friend, and he also mentions being molested by a man at an unspecified age. "I got a call not long ago from a friend. He told me that a man that I knew from church when I was a kid had died and...his family was trying to reach out to me to see if I would pay for his funeral. I quickly said no, but I wish I would have said yes. There is something so powerful to me in burying the man that molested me. I wish I would have dug the grave myself."
He also tells of the time his mother tried to leave his abusive father when he was just a tot. "She loaded me and my two sisters up in an old Cadillac that he had bought for her, and drove to California. When he realized she was gone, he called the police and reported the car stolen, as it was in his name. My mother was arrested, and my two sisters and I were put in the cell with her. He and my uncle drove from Louisiana to California to get us. We spent several days in jail waiting for him. He bailed her out and couldn't wait to get her into the car. He got into the back seat with us and beat her black and blue from California to Louisiana, as me and my sisters watched. Even though I was only two or three, I know that this had to have some effect on me."
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Six Degrees of Tyler Perry
Six Degrees of Tyler Perry
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Tyler Perry
The best-selling playwright turned Hollywood hot-shot (real name: Emmitt R. Perry, Jr.) was born Sept. 14, 1969 in New Orleans, Louisiana.
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Labelle
Known as the music capitol of the Gulf Coast, New Orleans was also the setting for 'Lady Marmalade,' a hit song from 1970s glam-soul trio Labelle, comprised of Patti LaBelle, Nona Hendryx and Sara Dash.
Lenny Kravitz
Modern day rock & roll demigod Lenny Kravitz is one of the top-notch talents chosen to produce Labelle's long-awaited reunion album, 'Back to Now,' due out later this year via Verve Records.
Lisa Bonet
'The Cosby Show' and 'A Different World' star Lisa Bonet eloped with Lenny Kravitz in November 1987. Their daughter Zoe Isaballe Kravitz was born the next year. The couple separated in 1991.
Gary Dourdan
'C.S.I.' actor Gary Dourdan played Cree Summer's character's love interest Shazza Zulu on the NBC sitcom 'A Different World,' which was originally developed as a spin-off vehicle for Lisa Bonet. The Philadelphia native appeared on 13 episodes from 1991 to 1992.
Janet Jackson
Gary Dourdan also played the love interest of Janet Jackson in the music video for her chart-topping ballad, 'Again,' in 1993.
Tyler Perry
Janet Jackson starred in the lead role of Tyler Perry's box office smash, 'Why Did I Get Married?' The twice divorced pop star won an NAACP Image Award for her performance.
Ruben Cannon
One of the most respected executives in Hollywood, Ruben Cannon has served as a casting director of film and TV projects dating all the way back to 1977. He co-executive produced Tyler Perry's 'Why Did I Get Married?'
The New Orleans native, who turned 40 last month, was born Emmitt R. Perry Jr. but changed his name to Tyler to rid himself of his father's name. He has never made it a secret that he was abused as a child and ran away from home. He eventually became a successful playwright, producing hit shows that took him to the film world where he continues to succeed.
Despite that success, the past continues to haunt Perry. "My mother was out one night, as she loved to play bingo, and my father came home...mad at the world," he relates in the letter. "He was drunk, as he was most of the time. He got the vacuum cleaner extension cord and trapped me in a room and beat me until the skin was coming off my back. To this day, I don't know what would make a person do something like that to a child. But thank God that in my mind, I left. I didn't feel it anymore, just like in 'Precious.'"
Along with Oprah Winfrey, Perry will help promote 'Precious.' He says he is not making any money from the film (which he neither directed nor wrote), and that both he and Winfrey will give all the proceeds to charity.
"If life begins at 40, then I owe the little boy that I was my life...[the film] hit me so hard, I sat there in tears realizing that somehow, by the grace of God, I made it through. My tears were tears of joy, being thankful that I made it."
The rest of his letter can be read here.


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By: hmmm on 10/06/2009 8:06PM
i agree luna it makes no sense that he is trying to explain how his feelings relate to this movie and all this write can get is that he is trying to make money- how foolish and typical of our country- thats all people want to do - put people down and think everyone is after money- tyler perry could buy everyone on this page - so for goodness sakes let the man open up geez!
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By: derel on 10/06/2009 2:10PM
Well...this explains a lot about his strange behavior!!!!!!!!
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By: Sandy on 10/07/2009 7:53PM
Do your research and you will find the FACT that Shelby presented is confirmed. We have come a long way in addressing the concerns of domestic violence in for all cultures, but we have a long, very long, way to go. A blind eye, or a 'buried behind sealed lips, is not the way to heal. I applaud the bravery of anyone, no matter the culture, in opening the door to this horribleness, in taking a stand and for being a SURVIVOR. A blind eye and silence are victum/victumization symtoms. Way to help us heal, Tyler AND Oprah!
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By: Jazz on 10/06/2009 2:15PM
What's with the poll at the bottom of the article? That's VERY tacky.
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By: Magonzie on 10/06/2009 3:27PM
Why is it when someone talks about being abuse as a child it has to be a lie, for publcity, or anything other reason?
This why kids do not say anything, and when they become adult they do not say anything about the abuse.
Who will belive you?
the abuser always ask this question when the abused says they are going to tell.
Who will belive?
When will we belive those who suffered abuse?
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By: EveCDaKid on 10/06/2009 4:52PM
yes i agree, with you and that was a really powerful statement that you just made. But ppl have been known to pull publicity stunts like this. foR EXAMPLE PPL ACCUSED KANYE AND LENO OF DOING IT. wHEN LENO ASKED KANYE WHAT WOULD HIS MOTHER THINK OF HIM DISRESPECTING TAYLOR SWIFT. AND THATS BAD CUZ HIS MOTHER IS DEAD.
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By: Oscar on 10/06/2009 2:19PM
i am not a big fan of Mr. Perry's movies or TV series. I used to think I hated him, but the more I learn about him the more respect I have for him. Coming from nothing to get where he is at is very impressive. I did too have a horrible childhood and teenhood, but some of us make the best of it to become good people.
Bravo Mr. Perry!!!!!
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By: blessed1still on 10/06/2009 2:19PM
Why would the question come up as to whether or not this is a publicity stunt for Precious? The media can be so callous and cruel, judging others by their "ever-suspicious measuring stick."
Tyler Perry has overcome adversity and "made it" in a world that all the odds are stacked against him, i.e, he's black, he's a black man, he came from an impoverished background, etc. Tyler has exhibited phenomenal talent and let's just give him that without judging his motives (asininely so!).
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By: Tat on 10/06/2009 2:23PM
I Believe Tyler Perry has been touched by this film as many others will be also. It is time for people to face their demons, bring them out in the open, and destroy them. Only then, can we be truly free.
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By: lu on 10/08/2009 4:21PM
amen.
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